This secret causes him to become secretly obsessed with you!
🚨 Is He Pulling Away? Feeling Like He’s Losing Interest? 🚨
Have you ever wondered why some men become obsessed with certain women, while others suddenly lose interest and grow distant?
If he’s acting cold, distant, or indifferent, it might be because you haven’t triggered the right emotional switch in his heart yet…
The good news? There’s a powerful psychological secret that can make ANY man feel an irresistible connection with you—so strong that he’ll never want to leave your side!
🔹 Imagine him seeing you as the woman of his dreams…
🔹 Craving you like never before…
🔹 And finally committing to you, fully and completely!
📌 But be warned: This technique is so powerful that you must use it responsibly…
👉 Click the button below to discover the secret that could change your relationship forever!
Here are just a few of the secrets you’re about to discover in this video
» The Glimpse Phrase
» The fascination Signal
» The “I Owe You” Sign
» Damsel In Distress Signal
» “ The Private Island” Signal
» The “X-Ray Question”
» He “Ex-Back” Signal
» The “Secret Currency” of Happy Relationship
Hi James,
I purchased your course yesterday and got to module 6 last night. Just from the introduction video I could see what I had done to make a male friend (whom I would like to be more than a friend) pull away from me. How I had switched off his hero instinct by being too independent and not allowing him to win with me. Situations where he was almost pleading to let him help me and I didn’t let him.
I sent him a message last night using some of the things you’d mentioned, just telling him I really appreciated him and everything he’s done for me, and that I couldn’t imagine my life without him in it.. in whatever capacity he chooses that to be.
I am amazed at the increase in frequency of messages and replies from him, maybe it’s not too broken to fix.. you have given me hope and that’s something that’s been very short in my life over the last few years. I’m going to continue the course later when I finish work.. a lot of these things I did automatically when he and I became friends but I allowed my emotions and insecurities to change that.
I’m looking forward to learning more but just wanted to tell you what’s happened so far. Your little section where you explain depression has also helped me hugely, by not allowing myself hope I have been making my depression so much worse!! You changed that yesterday.. thank you.
Many thanks,
-Lorna
Hi James!
Are you some kind of God? 🙂 It feels you are so closely connected to everything that has to do with being a human. I am not in a relationship, neither seeking one presently yet I purchased your Be Irresistible course (after watching the presentation) because I felt that this course has a much wider applicability to life including and beyond relationships.
I’m an Indian, and have been practicing meditation for over 4 years. I’m through module 1 to 6 and must say, that while the course suggests that meditation would assist in increasing the intuitive awareness, for me the process has been bi-directional. Your course has deepened my meditation practice as well as intuition.
I hugely respect you for your relationship advices that are value-based rather than gratification-based. Your written words seem as if you were directly speaking to me.
Thanks for your goodness and deep insights.
-Deepti
Thank you for your program, your tricks & tips & your amazing insight into relationships. I just turned 71, became a widow 4 yrs. ago, & was married for 48 yrs. to the same wonderful man. Having married young, at the age of 18, I was never really out in the dating world much & thought my life was over after losing my husband. It took me 4 yrs. to finally “wake up” to feelings that have been dead for so long. I have recently begun putting myself out there again & it’s so difficult. I look like I’m in my 50’s and am intelligent, pretty, bubbly, outgoing & have many friends & a big family. I have a wide variety of interests & love stimulating & intelligent conversation. It’s difficult because men around my age look even older, act old & have not many interests other than working, doing things around their homes or other interests & don’t seem to have time or want to give time to a relationship. Sorry this is so long but I wanted to explain my situation a little & to thank you for helping me navigate through today’s dating world. I so look forward to your tips & constantly refer back to them. Sometimes I feel like you are my own personal relationship coach. God bless you, James. Please know that you are really helping women who do avail themselves of the words you offer.
-Mary Ann
Your research and advice was invaluable.
My boyfriend has changed from being distant and too busy to see me – and now the opposite is true.
I kept being patient for ages. Then I read the section about not bottling it all up, fuming inside. Instead I told him by text how I felt – in a nice way, full of compliments.
He immediately asked to see me, he couldn’t wait!
We had a lovely time, and I listened well, talked a bit, following your guidance on the power and beauty of silence.
I could write a lot more, but for now, I just want to say thank you, thank you x 100!
-Eva
Dear James,
This email came in spot on and just in time to save the day. It is so unbelievably true what you said about indifference and how contagious it could be if care is not taken.
For two days up until I read this email, I hadn’t heard from my boyfriend which is a tad unusual, especially as he is off on Thursday nights through the weekend. Yet, it didn’t seem to bother me seeing as I didn’t even miss him. Then this morning, it dawned on me that he could be feeling as indifferent just as much or even a little bit more than myself since he did not bother calling me. So when I read your email this morning, I was like “That’s it … indifference… ” So I called him thereafter and tried to shake things up a little bit and now he is picking me up after work to spend the night at my place.
Thank you very much, coach. Please keep it coming.
-Sanny
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